Discover....
that I must be a bit of an oddball around
here for my age, after attending a night out with an over 50's singles group, was a bit disconcerting. I mean, I know I’m a little weird but to know so much
about social internet and be able to send bulk emails, moderate (I was asked
what that is!) a forum and post frequently on blogger and Facebook, and now I’m
using the Snapchat app thanks to my adult kids, set me apart from the rest of
the group. To also grow vegetables, by preference, instead of flowers and
ornamental trees made me a little more of an outcast. I’m glad I didn’t say
anything about homemade soap and laundry liquid or start talking about
sourdough starter and baking my own bread…..they may have thought I should be
in a straight jacket or I’d escaped from somewhere!!
I declined the
invitation to go to one of the local clubs after dinner as I’d had enough. They
are nice people but they have narrow views and I’m afraid after being on the
DTE forums for just short of 4 years and moderating for half that time I didn’t feel I needed to be exposed to their views and they certainly weren't interested in mine. As I’ve almost accidentally removed
myself from the land of the living in the last 2 years I want to ENJOY life, and have new experiences and grow physically and mentally, not stagnate in the same spot in my life journey as some of the group members seemed to be doing.
If you don’t like
your life YOU CHANGE IT! It’s
not easy but no one else can do it for you.
I was catching up on
blogs this morning and this struck a chord with me as I’ve done it before the self-caused
hiccup in my life put it on partial hold for a couple of years. I continued to
plant some veges, turned off lights/power points that weren’t being used and
kept cooking from scratch whenever possible, while enjoying the free things
life has available like the joy and company of exercising the dog, beautiful
sunrises/sunsets, the glory of a flying flock of noisy galahs and the delicate
way a butterfly goes about its business….just to mention a few.
Reading this helped
me feel good again about my decisions and what is right for me. ….Thanks Phil.
At the moment the split peas are
soaking for the pea and ham soup tonight, the sourdough starter was fed earlier
and will be bubbling gently soon for the sourdough crumpets I want to make to have with
the soup, I’ve brought in most of the laundry that was washed using homemade
laundry liquid that contains homemade soap and as soon as I empty out a dead
tree from a pot and toss some mixed greens seeds in there I’m going for a bike
ride and letting the dog tag along.
Life is good if you
know how you like to enjoy it :D.
Hope everyone had a
truly enjoyable weekend.
Cheers,
RobynLouise xo